It’s truly terrifying that men can’t empathize with an abused woman unless they imagine her as a woman they know and love.
If you have to imagine that Ray Rice had hit your own mother/sister/wife/daughter in order to be upset about it, you have some serious thinking to do.
And I Will Smile
“If it is unappetizing: Do not eat, date, or sign up for it. If the mere thought of it is depressing: Do not major in it, sit through it, or devote your life to it. If it is not important to you: Do not do it only because it is important to someone else. You will thank yourself”